Perhaps the biggest sign that you are getting where you want to be in life is the deep feeling of utter contentment and happiness you feel, how when you get out of bed first thing in the morning you awake looking forward to a brand new day.
However, there are many smaller signs that you are going in the right direction towards getting there, which can help us to stick with our plans for change and get us through those periods when we are uncertain or feel like giving in.
We all have different reasons for wanting to change ourselves for the better, perhaps we have to go on a diet to lose a few pounds.
We might be trying to quit smoking or drinking, we might have problems with low self-esteem that we need to overcome or need to develop our communication skills.
These are just some of the aspects in life that we have to deal with and overcome in order to better ourselves, and of course, as with anything, making any changes to your lifestyle will require some patience.
Noticing changes in yourself won’t happen overnight, it could take weeks, even months for you to start feeling the benefits of your changes.
As well as seeing those changes but there are many positive little signs that should give us encouragement and which can tell us we are getting there.
Here are just a few of the signs that the changes you are making are taking effect.
* Every time you look into a mirror, the first thing you do is smile at yourself.
* You suddenly find that you have a whole lot more choice when it comes to buying clothes.
* You stop putting blame on the world or those around you for your mistakes.
* You jump out of bed full of energy looking forward to a new day, instead of pulling the covers around your head and going back to sleep.
* You find you no longer worry whether other people like you are not.
* You do what you want to do instead of what you think others want you to do.
* You get more comments about the big change in you.
* You find the word “no” is in your vocabulary.
* Your teenager starts to borrow your clothes.
* You no longer fear making new friends.
* You actually feel proud of what you have accomplished.
* You can laugh and see the funny side when you make a mistake.
* You automatically learn from your mistakes and shrug them off more easily.
* You are able to reach the goals you set out for yourself more easily.
* You find that you are no longer putting things off, but looking forward to them instead.
* You make changes t your life naturally without even thinking about them.
* You cant remember the last time you had a bad day.
* You just feel you are heading in the right direction.
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